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A Desired Match Is Two 5th Lords and Two Consents
A love marriage with a particular person is possible in the charts only when both 5th lords and both 7th lords can meet, both D9 charts allow a household, and a 7th-lord or Venus antardasha is actually open. The other person's consent is not a house you can remedy into existence. This page will not describe a method to compel anyone. Friday devotion, if Venus is your marriage lord, is a conduct in your own dasha. Their lagna remains theirs.

Desire is the 5th. Agreement is the 7th
Your 5th house can be full and their 7th lord can be in the 12th. The desire is real and the wedding is uphill. Rahu in your 5th can intensify a single person in the mind across Rahu themes, and that intensity is not evidence that their chart agrees. Ashtakoota from both Moon nakshatras will sometimes be kind while the 7th lords are not, or the reverse. Look at the unkind layer on purpose. Families who want only an upay are asking the rite to skip the layer. Jupiter's aspect on the 7th helps the house. It does not sign the other person's name into your 7th.
The only remedies that belong here
Calculate both charts with real times. Talk. If your 7th lord is Venus, a Friday practice is coherent. If the 7th lord is Jupiter, Thursday. If the periods are shut, wait for the antardasha whose length you can compute, years times years divided by 120, instead of intensifying a rite in a 6th-lord season. Nothing in this list binds, frightens, or targets a named person. Practices of that kind are refused. A match that needs them is not a match the 7th house is offering.
When the charts do line up
If both D9 7ths are sound and both 7th lords' periods overlap, the astrology is as favorable as astrology gets, and the human yes is still required. Jyothish SI can cast both kundlis with Lahiri ayanamsa. Paid plans add the navamsa pages. Use them to see the overlap. Do not use them as a warrant. The desired person remains a person. The remedy, such as it is, is an accurate chart and a patient dasha, not a shortcut around either.
Frequently asked questions
What has to be true in both charts?
A workable 5th lord, a workable 7th lord, and a D9 7th that is not wrecked, with a Venus or 7th-lord antardasha open in at least one chart and tolerable in the other.
Is there a rite to compel the other person?
None is described. Devotion is to your own marriage lord on that lord's weekday. Their chart and their consent are not remedies.
What if the 7th-lord period is years away?
The wedding clock is that period. A 5th-lord season can hold a romance. It does not force a marriage the 7th lord's dasha has not reached.
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