A Partner's Cooling Interest and the 7th Lord

A partner losing interest is read, if the chart speaks to it at all, from the 7th lord, Venus, and a separative planet on the 7th. Ketu in the 7th detaches. Saturn on the 7th cools and delays. Rahu obsesses, which is a different problem from indifference. The antardasha of Ketu or of a 7th lord sitting in the 12th is a classic quiet period: distance, private life, less display of affection. That period ends when the sub-period changes. It is not proof the marriage house has died. D9 can show a stronger 7th than the birth chart, in which case the quiet is seasonal.

Your Venus describes your experience of union. Their 7th lord describes their bond, and you do not have it without their birth time. A sincere person can be in their own Saturn antardasha and look cold while your 7th is fine. Two clocks are running. Remedies aimed at making someone love you cross into control, and this page will not give a method for that. There is no graha that compels another adult's feelings. If your 7th lord is in the 6th, the relationship has a conflict timer. If it is in the 11th, the bond is more social and friendly, which some people misread as lost passion.

Help from Jyotish is naming the timer. If Saturn aspects the 7th, affection returns in a heavier, dutiful form, not as a second courtship, and often when Venus or the 7th lord runs. If the 5th lord of romance has no contact with the 7th, the early heat was never the marriage house. Strengthening Venus with a diamond is a chart decision about a graha, not a lure. Do it only when Venus's houses for your lagna deserve strength. Talk to the person. The 3rd house is courage and the 2nd is speech. A yoga will not carry a conversation you refuse to have.